The Art of Love

The art of love begins with ourselfs. The first step consists of becoming conciuous, of understanding the right truth due to which every man dreams his own dream. Who undertands that part, becomes responsible for his/her own share of the relationship, for himself / herself. Knowing that he/she is responsible for his/her share of the relationship, he/she may control it easily. But there is no reasion why he/she should tyr controling the other share. If we truly respect him/her. we will understand that our partner, or friend, son, mother, everyone is fully responsible for their share of the relationship. If we'd truly know how to respect the other half, our relationship will be parametered by conflicts. We'd never have wars in our family or couple. Futhermore, if we understand what love is and what fear is, we can be councious on how to communicate to ourselves others' dreams. The quality of communication depends on the options that we create in every moment, the emotional hollowing to the vibration of love or fear. If we are on the path of fear, then we can change the vibration to the one of love. It's a personal decision. Knowing which path we folow can change everything. In the end, if we understand the fact that nobody else can make us happy but ourselves, and that this happiness is the result of love which radiates from our being, we shall reach the skillfulness of the biggest art, The Art of Love. We can talk about love and we can write tons of books about it, but love differs from person to person, because she must first be experienced. Love is not a concept, it's a state of facts, manners of taking action. The only path that leads to suffering is the fear to take action. The only way to reach the skillfulness of love is to experience it. There is no need to justify it or explain it, it's enough to just experience it. Practice is what makes the master.